Nov 12, 2009

Controlling Beau

A lot of the relationships out there, homo and hetero alike, didn't last long because one of the the 2 parties were too controlling, or in another word, dominating. Everything has to be done his/her way. While the other party might be submissive, there's only up to a certain limit that once that limit is breached, then you'll get a broken relationship.

I beg to differ.

I think in a relationship, there should be one who should call the decisions. Otherwise, if both are so ever spineless, decisions would take ages to be made. And by the time there's a final conclusion, it would be too late already.

But then again, there are some relationships that go a very long way. One party is like the decision maker, while the other just follow. It was like that, it's still like that, and it'll be forever like that. Amazingly, they lasted longer than everyone else.

And I pity the submissize party.

In my case, we're both versatiles. LOL.

9 comments:

the happy go lucky one said...

both are versatiles? should i read it as plain as it suggests, or there r subtler meaning behind? lolll....

Just B3cks said...

Hi clayden! both versatile as in..... bed and also ..decisions thingy rite? :)

savante said...

Depends on the two personalities involved :) Takes a while to work out a balance after all.

Clayden said...

wahhh.... u guys ah.... so hamsap one. hahahah

Clayden said...

wahhh.... u guys ah.... so hamsap one. hahahah

Takashi said...

HEHEe...

I am the one making the decision in the relationship but I also like to have my own life apart from work.. and that includes social and life and all...

so far, there has been ups and downs in the understanding from the boy although it's been 2 years plus.. coming to 3...

Calvin said...

But some guys like to be the submissive one. Hehehe...

Evann said...

I think I'm dominant in a relationship... but submissive in bed..

Baha! I can't believe I just said that! xD

housewife9988 said...

hmmh.. decisive ~ versatiles..
esp. if a man is indecisive.. better b ware & consider carefully..